Little back story: I grew up with 2, younger brothers and tons of cousins always around. It felt like I had tons of siblings. We were all so close and saw each other all the time, not to mention we actually loved spending time with one another. We hung out by choice, not just force.
Anyways...I remember, one Christmas I had gone about an hour away to one of my cousin's other relatives houses for a short visit. On the way home, it was raining, and we were stuck in major traffic. I kid you not, I was so happy, that we hit traffic! I had been having so much fun with my cousins in my aunt's van that I didn't want the trip to end. We were all snuggly inside with the heater on, sharing blankets and stories and laughing hysterically! I thought, "If we were driving home, right now, to a cardboard box, I would be just as happy, because I love these people and I have them in my life!" Now, fortunately we had a cozy home full of Christmas presents, food, warmth, and comfy couches we were headed to. But if not, our laughter and love for each other would have warmed that cardboard box right up!
I continue to have this thought through out my relationships in life. I stop and think, "Would I be happy stuck in a cardboard box with you?" If the answer is no, maybe you should re-evaluate the relationship. Of course, no one would be happy forever living in a box- so don't get all cray cray here. Just think; if the world stripped you of everything, except the people in your life and tossed you a box. Would you be happy with the quality of your relationships? To my friends and family; if all I had were you and a cardboard box; I know we'd make that thing homey and move it somewhere with a stellar view. I would be happy. People are all that matter in your life; nourish them and your relationships.
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